I am 45 years old, married, have regular sex but just LOVE to masturbate. I need to every other day or so, sometimes more, sometimes less. The way I like doing it best is slowly. I try to do this as often as possible, say on a Sunday afternoon when my husband has taken my son out to play football in the park. I take my clothes off and sit up with my legs open. I stroke my breasts and play with my nipples, then I stroke my flank, my belly and feel the curves of my body. Then, ever so slowly, I move my hand down to my mound and watch the change in sensitivity as I approach the top of my clitoral hood. My fingers hover around my clitoris for a while, teasing it, pulling back the hood, moving playfully around the area where my inner lips join up at the top. Then I can’t stand it any longer and I rub my clit till it hardens and till my vagina begs to be filled. I love the feeling of a penis inside me, so that is what I sometimes fantasize about. But first I circle the entrance of my vagina with a finger. Then I dip a finger from my other hand into my vagina, wet it and then fill my asshole. I leave that finger there and with the other hand I massage my perineum. I give myself lots of time to make sure my clit, my very sensitive lips that love being touched and my throbbing vulva get lots of attention.
Then, I put first two, and then three fingers into my pussy and move my hand in and out, in and out, faster and faster. I let the contractins of pleasure build and then slow down again. Then, when I’ve finger-fucked myself nicely and gotten my vaginal walls well and truly stimulated and ready, I use my now dripping wet index and middle fingers to rub up hard against my G-spot. It is very swollen by now and I can actually feel it getting more and more engorged with fluid as my fingers place pressure against its ridges inside my cunt. I press hard against the ridges and move my fingers in a circular motion. This vigorous movement of my hand also stimulates the entrance to my vagina and my vulva and clit. I find that by sitting up when you masturbate, you get a lot more pleasure from the G-spot — maybe that has something to do with the position of the body. Also, I think that gravity helps to ensure that your gentials get engorged more quickly. G-spot masturbation takes work and time; it also takes more effort, as the G-spot is not so readily sensitive as the clitoris.
But gradually, over the years, I have found out how to mix clitoral stimulation with that of the G-spot. By thrusting my fingers in and out and pressing hard against my G-spot, I build up the waves of pleasure slowly but ever so surely to a deep, strong orgasm that finally erupts with incredible force from deep inside my belly. It spreads like wildfire from deep inside my pussy, rising in outward waves all the way up my neck and down to my legs. My finger feels the convulsions in my anus. My vaginal contractions grab my fingers and pull at them and the fluid in my G-spot gushes out with the most intense warmth. The pleasure is deep and lasting. I look down and see that I have ejaculated and my wetness is drenching the sofa. My legs are limp and i feel myslef flop. At this point, I don’t stop. The best bit is the afterglow, when I extricate my fingers from inside me, taste the wetness by sucking them and then slowly massage my whole vulva with the palm of my hand until the sensations have finally quitened down.